First off, I'm not entirely sure that this topic is entirely kosher. If not, I apologize, and ask that a Mod delete/close it at the first opportunity.
I have a problem.
For a long time, I've had a habit of referring to members of forums I've posted on as "Guys and Gals", or "Lads and Lasses".
However, since becoming an EP addict I've realized that could be considered offensive, and have tied to change my ways.
I have, however run into a roadblock... and it's one that's been bugging me in-setting as well.
Simply put, I can't find the non-binary gender equivalents for "friendly" slang.
So here we go - Let's make a EP gender slang list, both of IRL words and ones we make up!
Once again for clarity: I am NOT talking about slurs or derogatory language. That stuff is depressingly easy to find.
I'm talking about neutral or positive words, signalling friendship of goodwill, like an Agender/Androgyne equivalent of "Dude".
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In the past we've had to compensate for weaknesses, finding quick solutions that only benefit a few.
But what if we never need to feel weak or morally conflicted again?