So, I've volunteered for a rape crisis hotline for the past two years (www.barcc.org). I get some calls from people who were raped a long time ago as children, but sometimes it's much more recent and I'm the first person they've ever told. I was thinking about the transhuman mindset, and it seemed like it might be interesting to look about rape from that persepctive.
Let's start with a question that's less obvious than it seems: why is rape bad? Why is it much worse than getting stabbed, beaten up, or suffering similar types of painful-but-temporary injury? There are several different ways to answer that question, but I think that most answers gravitate toward the argument that rape is worse because it inflicts extraordinary emotional damage that can last a lifetime. This naturally leads to the question of why that emotional damage occurs. You could imagine an AGI in a skin mask might be raped and feel nothing more than confusion and annoyance. This suggests the harm of rape is rooted in a human understanding of the meaning of the act.
So when you start thinking about how humans know what something means, it's useful to view the problem in terms of memetics. For contrast, we can think of language as a memetic operating system, partially learned and partially inborn, that translates soundwaves in the air into ideas in our heads. For some reason, perhaps partially biological or partially cultural, humans almost always translate the experience of being raped into some very toxic memes like "I'm nothing," "I'm an object," "I'm their property," "I'm worthless," "I'm defiled," or "It's my fault this is happening." Some memes are definitely more common based on the rape survivor's gender identity; women are more likely to feel ugly, and men are more likely to feel weak. The trauma of the rape sears the memory into the survivor's mind and helps those toxic memes take root, but social conditioning also makes a substantial contribution. Compared to outright torture or other extreme acts, rape is very simple to perform and easy to hide; on any given day, it probably causes more damage to more people worldwide than any other type of memetic assault.
So what do we do about it now, and what can we do in the future? Well a memetic perspective makes a hotline counselor like me a sort of antibody to help protect a caller's ego from the memes that are infecting them; I'm certainly no "cure," but a supportive person to talk with early on can help put the rape in a context where the survivor doesn't blame themself for what happened. Edjucating young people about rape is like an innoculation that can help them resist an exposure that hits later on. Our vulnerability to rape seems related to other hang-ups about gender, and that's just one more reason to get rid of those outdated ideas.
It becomes even more interesting to speculate on how increased understanding of the mind works will change how we guard against memetic assaults and mitigate their aftereffects. I'm certainly leery about what will happen when we start hacking our brains, but how can you say "no" to something that might help a child rape survivor develop a healthy sense of self-worth? Less optimistically, it's very frightening to think about how much damage could be done with new avenues of memetic attack. For nothing more than a fleeting sense of power, a rapist will callously inflict damage that takes a lifetime to heal; just think of how much damage that someone like that could do with a mind-virus. Broadly speaking, this is why I'm pessimistic about the future: if we have the power to hurt each other, it's inevitable that someone will make a grab that power; and it's so much easier to play offense than it is to play defense.
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Rape as a memetic assault
Sun, 2011-06-19 02:45
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Rape as a memetic assault
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[hr] Memes are ideas and symbols that spread across populations following rules of epidemics. The reason why any given meme spreads is a slightly different topic, and includes the particular psychological exploits such as the foot-in-the-door method, or the giving of small gifts such as flowers. These aren't the memes themselves, just the transmission pathway. The psychological explanation for why rape is so traumatic has partially to do with the way that memories are formed, and partially to do with how we react to events that violate our understanding of our own self-image. Memories formed during emotionally intense experiences, when cortisol and epinephrine levels are very high, can be exceptionally vivid and very difficult to remove. PTSD generally forms from these experiences when they are traumatic enough to overwhelm the victim's coping mechanisms and violate their sense of how the world works. Additionally, there victim suffers extreme cognitive dissonance, as their view of self as empowered is demonstrated to be false. Actions speak much more loudly than thoughts, so the victims thoughts on who they are fall into line with reality of what happened to them. The victims begin to believe that they must be worthless, or else they wouldn't have been raped, and their new beliefs form their new actions. This leads to a problem where many sexual abuse victims begin to take on a demeanor that signals to abusers that this person can be victimized, so many rape victims end up being raped repeatedly, further reinforcing the belief that they are worthless. As far as rape being used as a memetic attack, one of the traditions of warfare is to use mass rape as a tactic to demoralize your enemies. Gaddafi has done so as he continues to use the Geneva Conventions as a checklist of ways to wage war on his populace, and the tradition runs as far into history as we can find. I imagine that transhumanity will continue the tradition of finding the most optimized methods of committing atrocities on each other, and the use of rape as a memetic assault will continue in some form or another. I hate humanity.@-rep +1
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[hr] You can hate humanity and still consider yourself to be a part of it. I might feel untethered inside of it at times, but I still think that removing the crushing weight of unmet needs from the majority of the populace would make everything quite a bit better for everyone. People may still have some psychological drive to take power from other people, but psychological drives are much easier to change if there isn't some inescapable situation keeping the subject past the edge of what is tolerable for life. I just don't see any good way for us to get there.@-rep +1
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