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Beauty ideals in Eclipse Phase

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Beauty ideals in Eclipse Phase
I did sort of promise I'd make a thread for it so here it is! The game mentions on several places morphs that have been tweaked to "look good", but only for the Sylph is there any mention of what this "good" is (which seem to be almost otherworldly features which in a way makes sense). There is also a striking looks trait which implies that there is a universal beauty ideal for most people in Eclipse Phase (but why AGIs are coded without love of beauty I don't understand). Historically the beauty ideal is constantly changing, even on a decade basis and definitely on a century basis. Beauty is a very cultural concept and beauty ideals are most often whatever is difficult to achieve. In cultures where being fat is difficult, overweight people are often considered attractive. When most people have to work outside in the sun, milky-white skin is considered ideal. Unnaturally small feet, long necks etc etc. Our cultural beauty ideals have always been that thing that is hard to get. So what does this mean for Eclipse Phase and its custom grown morphs and body sculpturing healing vats. Is anything difficult anymore? Is there actually a beauty ideal? And what is this "tweaked for good looks" that exalts are supposed to be. Too often, I feel, do people lazily apply current day ideals on the Eclipse Phase world. And too often do people assume that everyone walks around looking "good" compared to current day ideals. Even today, the ideals of the latter part of the 20th century are starting to go out. It is no longer difficult to get a tan, or stay unltra-thin (and we have been bombarded with too many unhealthy looking models). There are plenty of people who are trying to move beauty away from the fringes and into the "middle". That beauty is being, well, healthy. We are also starting to acknowledge that beauty really is individual more than cultural, that people enjoy different types of looks. There are still people who enjoy oversized breasts and thin waists on women, but there is a large (pun not intended) amount of people who prefer overweight and fat people. So, instead of assuming that in Eclipse Phase, things will be uniform, isn't it better to assume that they will be even more diverse. That people will be proud of their individuality and aim to be pretty for a specific group of people? That when you go into a club you will see people of all different sizes, proudly flaunting their bodies knowing that there'll be someone enjoying it. Not to mention that with body sculpting you can do some weird things (like those mentioned extremely small feet or oversized necks) without inflicting bodily harm. The question is, do you believe there is a universal beauty ideal in Eclipse Phase and if so what is it, or do you believe that individuality is a lot more common? Also, what does this mean for the (supposedly extremely beautiful) sylph?
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davethebrave davethebrave's picture
Yeah, I had a bit of a "huh?"
Yeah, I had a bit of a "huh?" with the sylph too. Are they implying that the standard of 10 AF is skinny, lithe beauties? Or is the sylph as diverse as the standards of beauty? That's my personal answer as GM, that there are sylphs of all ethnicities and shapes and sizes and standards. I want to drill this home for my players by having them go to an anarchist hab where a bunch of people who were proud of their status as differently abled than the boring normal able-bodied folks decided to resleeve after the Fall into bodies custom designed to replicate their "disability", with a bunch of people having shrivelled arms, hunchbacks, etc. and have them encounter sylphs there that accentuate these aspects, that emphasize lack of symmetry instead of uncanny perfection. I'd make anyone setting foot on the station in a "standard" sylph have the uncanny valley trait for the duration of their stay, and show them all the diversity beautiful can have. But as per core, it does seem a bit confusing.
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OneTrikPony OneTrikPony's picture
The body ideal of eclipse
The body ideal of eclipse phase will be willowy thin people, women with big breasts and men with wide shoulder/hip ratios. Pretty much Victoria secret and calvin clein. The only major changes will involve smart clothing and hair styles that are adapted to work better in, or flaunt, low gravity environments. Facial features will be nearly as easy to change as hair color is today, so round or epicanthic eyes, narrow or wide noses, light or dark skin will be subject to the whims of the fashion season. Only eccentric and poor people will choose to be fat, bald, short, old, or mechanized. There's nothing to indicate in the EP history that the western monculture will not continue to dominate and override other cultures. Even today there are very few cultures that eschew the modern body ideal presented in any fashion magazine, (except for americans who largely choose to be fat by default rather than in pursuit of some cultural ideal). Medical technology will give all people the means of reaching the ideal body long before the fall happens. Major fashion movers from the low-G environments of Luna and Titan will push the low-muscle-mass tall willowy look to the extreme for everyone in the solar system. Simple and easy rejuvenation techniques mean that most people will maintain a physical age of 25-35. Few people will choose to look aged. Some might choose a venerable appearance in an attempt to project authority but the number of actual old people who still look 25 will make those people seem foolish. There will be MASSES of copycats. style clones of high F-Rep people will pop up instantly but it will be much more involved than simple style memes like the Princes Di haircut or the J-Lo booty or the... (I'm sure there are male style memes out there?) Modern medicine will allow full body close-to-clone copycats.

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davethebrave davethebrave's picture
I don't really get the
I don't really get the impression that the Western monoculture was as dominant in pre-Fall Earth as it is today. China and India, in particular, seem to have been easily as dominant as the West. That, for me, introduces the possibility of competing beauty standard markets pre-Fall, to say nothing of those who rail against those things. I imagine that sunward and rimward you're likely to find a lot of diversity of beauty, just in really different directions in each case. Especially when you can customize yourself to such an insane degree, cosmetically speaking, and nanofab your own clothes of your own design, if you so wish (and that's not restricted on the inner fabbers like guns and so on, so that would probably apply both sunward and rimward). Just my 2 credits.
Yours, Dave the Brave
OneTrikPony OneTrikPony's picture
China and India have bought
China and India have bought into the western monoculture. They are increasingly westernized in fashion and other surface cultural aspects. That's my point. Those cultures inform European design much less than than the other way round.

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OneTrikPony wrote:China and
OneTrikPony wrote:
China and India have bought into the western monoculture. They are increasingly westernized in fashion and other surface cultural aspects. That's my point. Those cultures inform European design much less than than the other way round.
Even then, you still have competing beauty standards. Do you want a skinny model girlfriend, or a badonk-a-donk butt? Double-D breasts, or Delicious Flat Chest? Fair complexion? Mocha hotness? An ebony goddess? Are you into fitgirls, or do you like yours ladies to be more tender-bodied? Do you like a girl with tattoos? Do you find librarian glasses hot? Blond, brunette or redhead? Are you into freckles? Sure, there are some universal aspects to attractiveness. Body symmetry will likely be universal in 10 AF, as will perfect skin complexion. Teeth might be perfectly white. No more split ends. But many other aspects of attractiveness are fairly subjective. If attractiveness were truly standardized, every person on the planet would be a perfect visual clone of one another.
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OneTrikPony wrote:China and
OneTrikPony wrote:
China and India have bought into the western monoculture. They are increasingly westernized in fashion and other surface cultural aspects. That's my point. Those cultures inform European design much less than than the other way round.
Where does it say that in core? I mean, I know what you're saying about corporate culture in China and India circa 2013 (and even then, it's hardly exactly the same as the monoculture even today), but who is to say what it looked like 50 BF? 20 BF? 1 BF? I don't think core states that 1 BF was a world exactly like our own, vis a vis beauty standard divisions in global media. As I said, the indications I got from core were that China and India had become powers in their own right, and with that power would come the cultural muscle-flexing to show pride in their own beauty standards. I just don't see any evidence in core that the Western monoculture of the opening years of the 21st century necessarily match up with 1 BF's competing power blocs.
Yours, Dave the Brave
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I guess I just strongly
I guess I just strongly resist white-washing this setting since the books seem to resist white-washing the setting.
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davethebrave wrote
davethebrave wrote:
OneTrikPony wrote:
China and India have bought into the western monoculture. They are increasingly westernized in fashion and other surface cultural aspects. That's my point. Those cultures inform European design much less than than the other way round.
Where does it say that in core? I mean, I know what you're saying about corporate culture in China and India circa 2013 (and even then, it's hardly exactly the same as the monoculture even today), but who is to say what it looked like 50 BF? 20 BF? 1 BF? I don't think core states that 1 BF was a world exactly like our own, vis a vis beauty standard divisions in global media. As I said, the indications I got from core were that China and India had become powers in their own right, and with that power would come the cultural muscle-flexing to show pride in their own beauty standards. I just don't see any evidence in core that the Western monoculture of the opening years of the 21st century necessarily match up with 1 BF's competing power blocs.
It doesn't say it in the core. Only, as you point out, that china and inda are ascendant. The adoption of the western monoculture is not a trend that's likely to reverse itself. Yes, there are distinctions left today, yes there are bollywood theaters in Texas. But monoculture is important to marketing and capitalistic interests will push the monoculture even harder as democracy becomes a more obvious fallacy, less useful in shielding the massive economic interests of corporate states from the desires of the populous. The history of human kind is memetic war. Christianity lost during the Renaissance. (Though it's still fighting a rear-guard action [HA! :D]) In WW2 memetic warfare was globalized like never before by america. Nations lost the war in the 70's but we're left with the grand and pitiful parting shots of the Regan administration; "Mr. Gorbachev pull down this wall!" and, "Say No to Drugs". We are now in the stage where the monoculture eats the distinct cultures of the world with the, again grand and pitiful, examples of Egyptian backlash against the muslem brotherhood and the Chinese middle-class driving hummers. Will there still be differences in minor things like traditional dress at the time of the Fall? Maybe. But the fact is that there will be far fewer languages in which to publish Vogue and GQ 100 years from now. When morphology becomes a choice, which will happen far sooner than the timeline of EP proposes, Most people will choose to be like everyone else. It's just easier that way. Water runs down hill. Obviously there will be morphological cultural distinctions for attractiveness, but not as we think of them today, as races or types of body composition. The setting has already defined these as Rusters, Hazers, Lunarfliers, Europans etc. Regardless; your Sylph morph will be tall, thin, willowy because Luna and Titan drive the fashion industry and in AF10 that is the (sensible) vogue in low-G environments.

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OneTrikPony wrote:It doesn't
OneTrikPony wrote:
It doesn't say it in the core. Only, as you point out, that china and inda are ascendant. The adoption of the western monoculture is not a trend that's likely to reverse itself.
Uh, that trend is reversing itself all over. If you follow Nick Land's web presence, he's very up on how Shanghai is the first city of the 21st century and is to a large extent trying to buck Western artistic and cultural trends while developing their own parallels to modernist and postmodernist viewpoints in architectural design, art, etc. that hollow out Western content and influences and supplant with fusions of ancient and modern that diverge from both Chinese art as influenced by colonialism and so on. I mean, if you follow anything outside of North America and Europe, art-wise, you can see this is a common thread among capitalist and anti-capitalist cultural efforts around the world, from the working classes up to the cultural elites, Shanghai is just doing it best right now (and as many cultural critics Nick Land cites from both sides of the Pacific and both sides of the Atlantic are saying, they're doing it better even than Paris, New York, or other Western cultural centres). So it's far from inevitable even given the zeitgeist as it stands in 2013 (if I knew more Mandarin, I'd use an equivalent word from a non-Western language, but I'm a white guy in Canada, so zeitgeist it is). I think extrapolating from a Western socio-cultural upbringing to the rest of the world like it's relevant is at best ignorant and disingenuous.
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Yes, there are distinctions left today, yes there are bollywood theaters in Texas. But monoculture is important to marketing and capitalistic interests will push the monoculture even harder as democracy becomes a more obvious fallacy, less useful in shielding the massive economic interests of corporate states from the desires of the populous.
I don't think that's true. Again, a [b]different[/b] monoculture could emerge in China, and yet [b]another[/b] one in India, and each of these could try and purge the Western monoculture elements and show the West that they can play that game at just the same levels, if not bigger and better. So while I agree that pre-hypercapitalist megacorps on Earth would try and push monocultures for ease of consumption, I think it's a lack of imagination in the West, coupled with natural cognitive biases we all share about the environments that directly shape us, that leads Westerners to assume an inevitability of our cultural imperialism (especially given how unpopular Western imperialism/neo-imperialism is, even among very capitalist people outside the West).
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The history of human kind is memetic war. Christianity lost during the Renaissance. (Though it's still fighting a rear-guard action [HA! :D]) In WW2 memetic warfare was globalized like never before by america. Nations lost the war in the 70's but we're left with the grand and pitiful parting shots of the Regan administration; "Mr. Gorbachev pull down this wall!" and, "Say No to Drugs". We are now in the stage where the monoculture eats the distinct cultures of the world with the, again grand and pitiful, examples of Egyptian backlash against the muslem brotherhood and the Chinese middle-class driving hummers.
And I don't see the EP books stating that America won a world dominance memetic war, nor American corps. I see them painting a world where competition became more diverse, and that those diversities were themselves cause for increased conflict prior to the TITANs coming online. Corporate rivalries between corporations are de rigeur AF, but BF it seems that those divisions were so strong that many on Luna and in Earth orbit [b]still[/b] follow those divisions despite all being smashed to bits, and that's 10 years on in a world where 10 years means way more progress and forking and diversion that today. That speaks strongly to me of a fracturing of Western monoculture making room for other corporate hells of different flavours, though again that's just me extrapolating from global attitudes today and the lack of Western dominance mentioned in core.
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Will there still be differences in minor things like traditional dress at the time of the Fall? Maybe. But the fact is that there will be far fewer languages in which to publish Vogue and GQ 100 years from now. When morphology becomes a choice, which will happen far sooner than the timeline of EP proposes, Most people will choose to be like everyone else. It's just easier that way.
Uh, I know a lot of people of colour who would find this really offensive. The idea that they would want to be "like everyone else" where "everyone else" means "white Western beauty ideals." And I'm not just talking about lefty radical people of colour. PLENTY of business-minded African-Americans, for example, consider white Western standards to be laughable and awkward at best, and try to foster new ways of being, both surface and deeper, within the belly of the beast. And while it didn't work out so well in the 1960s and 70s with the black nationalist and black radical movements trying to promote "black is beautiful" images in media and culture and communities, the new capitalist revival of those images is doing very well, and I don't see any indication of a die-off in fashion. In fact, many of these trends have spread to Europe and if you follow any fashion blogs, you can see clearly how these trends are only increasing both in saturation and in diversity of source (i.e. not just African-American but African, not just Japanese/Chinese but South-East Asian, Korean and Vietnamese, not just Spanish-influenced Latin American styles but indigenous Latin American styles, and so on) as the years go by. While these things may fade, there is no reason to [i]assume[/i] that the BF world was [i]less[/i] diverse than the world of today, and the fashion industry is as capitalistic as they get.
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Again, sort of a sketchy way to put this. Who is "down" the hill here, and what does "down" mean? Cultural revolutions happen with more frequency than political revolutions, and I just don't see any downward trends worldwide when it comes to aesthetics except European trends. Careful with the cultural imperialism we're all born and raised with in our media and advertising. It tends to lie, and tends to have a stronger hold in the West than anywhere else. Again, for the people of colour who play Eclipse Phase, I doubt they're seeing the setting as written as enforcing the idea of a hegemony of Americo-European dominance, and I wouldn't blame them: nothing as written suggests this. And neither does our contemporary world.
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Obviously there will be morphological cultural distinctions for attractiveness, but not as we think of them today, as races or types of body composition. The setting has already defined these as Rusters, Hazers, Lunarfliers, Europans etc. Regardless; your Sylph morph will be tall, thin, willowy because Luna and Titan drive the fashion industry and in AF10 that is the (sensible) vogue in low-G environments.
Now this I can grok, to some extent. Inner system standards taking model standards and pushing them, and everyone being able (if they can afford a sylph) to look just like those standards should they so choose...again, in my own campaign I think I'll probably have a diversity of standards of sylph in the inner system to represent (at [i]least[/i]) the 10 most common languages as if each language was tied to a deprogramming of Western monoculture 50 or more BF and was able to reshape their own idea of a monoculture and push it in a glossy, artificial, saturated hypercorporate way...but that's just me. I spend too much time on art, culture and fashion blogs, and [b]way[/b] too much time on sites critiquing media and advertising.
Yours, Dave the Brave
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This is a great blog post
This is a great blog post ABOUT Nick Land's Chinese culture/art blog that says more than I say, but I recommend clicking through and actually checking it out: http://darkecologies.com/2013/06/24/nick-land-urban-future-2-0/ In fact, Noir Realism (darkecologies.com) has archives that are a pretty great resource for Eclipse Phase in terms of speculative futures (i.e. speculative present-days for EP).
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I take the lithe builds as
I take the lithe builds as fairly popular, especially in the inner system, but fashion and beauty get more diverse and odd farther out and in scum swarms. I can see some very unique, extreme mods, some suited uniquely to mico-gravity. One thing that is nearly universally stylish in most habs (except specific count-cultures): biomorphs. They are more "natural" not to mention being expensive luxury items.
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First I was contemplating not
First I was contemplating not responding to you at all OneTrikPony, because you stated your opinion as if it was fact within the Eclipse Phase universe, something you can only do if you are in charge of the setting. Are you in fact in charge of the setting? I don't respond very well to that sort of discussion technique. Now I am not saying that you are wrong. It is entirely possible for the beauty ideal to be the same as today. I merely find it unlikely given how quickly it changes (looking at history). What do you base your opinion on that it will stay the same for (what I assume to be) over 100 years? Why will our culture suddenly stagnate? You also seemed to miss my point that beauty ideals historically often have been geared towards that which is hard to achieve. When nothing no longer is hard - what will happen? What makes you think that this part of how ideals are created will cease to exist? Our analysis of the world today seem to differ a lot too. I believe that today talking about a monoculture is wrong. The trend, both in clothes fashion and beauty ideals is going towards the individualistic. The point isn't to look like everyone else, the point is to find a style that suits you, that expresses your personality and lifestyle. The 21st century has seen a revival, in order more or less, of fashion trends during the 20th century with some extra flair added in. More and more though, I believe, have it started to be inclusive rather than exclusive. Two people can be fashionable yet have very different styles. Looking at an international scale this is even more obvious. Personally I see the monoculture you speak of breaking up and personally I think this breaking up of "monoculture" and move into diversified individuality to be a trend that will go into Eclipse Phase. Then we have the large number of subcultures that partly due to internet is forming and becoming a stronger and stronger presence in the world. Many of these have vastly different beauty ideals and are demanding to get their fix. Just look at how many followers weight GAIN videos on youtube have and the outcry when their favourite fatty decide to stop and loose weight again. Or check out deviantart and you'll see that there are plenty of people that chose not to take part in the fashion industry ideals and get their fix someplace else. So my opinion is that the industry will have to adapt or miss out on a lot of customers. And if it's something companies hate it's missing out on customers (money). Lastly I am fairly certain that the best way to attract attention is to stand out. Not in a bad way like coming in jeans and T-shirt to a black tie event but by being unique in some way. This is also something I think will be even more prominent in Eclipse Phase. You can buy a standard morph fairly cheap and look more or less like most other people but who wants that? And how will it help you attract attention? No, being unique and standing out is a trend I think will never die. Who likes to be bland anyway? While it is possible I am wrong, I believe that assuming current-day ideals will last all into Eclipse Phase is. Well... not an assumption to make easily. Not as directed to OneTrikPony as the above, as a sidenote I would like to say that during my first session ever the two players were heading to a large scum/anarchist habitat in Saturn's L1 point (that I made up myself and named The Harbor as I figured much of the long distance space traffic came here so it didn't have to drive out of Saturn's gravity and could instead use it for slingshot on the way back). One player, whos character was sleeved into a female ghost asked me what to wear to blend in at this station. After doing some research I said the best way to blend in was to stick out. While the player was considering this fact I said that one way could be to simply go naked and use the chameleon skin as body paint. It seemed like just the sort of sticking out that would make you blend in amongst scum. Now it has became a thing and the character resents clothes unless it is heavy armor and even then would prefer to go without it.
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Beauty will always be a
Beauty will always be a combination of two things: first there's whatever the beholder is wired for being attracted to - some things like symmetry and health markers seem to be universal. Diseased morphs will most likely never be in. There are also other things like hip:waist ratios that seem to be very universal. The other part of beauty competitive is in nature. When everyone can easily be perfect according to the "natural attraction features" in EP, then that will only get them so far. Their partners won't find them unattractive at all, but to be considered beautiful in EP you need set yourself apart. It needs to be difficult. The most beautiful fabrics are invariably expensive, delicate, wears out easily and is difficult to keep clean. Arenamontanus has a take on a beautiful morph here: http://www.aleph.se/EclipsePhase/Betta.pdf and he has the right idea imo. Beautiful morphs will be delicate, impractical and high maintenance. Big and delicate wings that easily break and require lots of space. Highly impractical and accentuated features like the bound feet of ancient China or those tribal neck rings. It takes dedication to live with such modifications. Difficult and expensive production has always been a hit too. Today, a handcrafted luxury car is a big thing. Maybe the biomorph equivalent of that is one that isn't vat grown but actually born and went through childhood while sleeved by athletes, dancers and singers to develop that fluidity of motion and richness of voice that you just can't get from a vat. Could there be morphs that were difficult to use but looked amazing when mastered? With a neural architecture like a fly-by-wire system, egos just flail about as they sleeve in it first - but nothing looks as impressive as the speed and grace someone who can use it can move with. A morph with an excessive amount of facial muscles under conscious control - it looks stupid if you can't control it, but once you've mastered it you can emote in the most amazing ways. And of course fashion trends and novelty will be big as always. I think those are the directions we should be looking. Being different is not enough - you have to be different in a way that is compatible with the basic laws of attraction and it has to be difficult in some way, like being impractical, expensive or requiring great effort to attain.
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Smokeskin wrote:Beauty will
Smokeskin wrote:
Beauty will always be a combination of two things: first there's whatever the beholder is wired for being attracted to - some things like symmetry and health markers seem to be universal. Diseased morphs will most likely never be in. There are also other things like hip:waist ratios that seem to be very universal.
This is actually how we handle the attractive trait largely in our games. It is effectively greater degrees of perfection in body ratio and symmetry, making it universally more appealing.
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I think those are the directions we should be looking. Being different is not enough - you have to be different in a way that is compatible with the basic laws of attraction and it has to be difficult in some way, like being impractical, expensive or requiring great effort to attain.
This, absolutely. Beauty has always been about outward displays of wealth, discipline, authority and prestige. Obesity was once a sign of wealth because it meant you could afford to eat. Skinniness is now a sign of wealth because it means you can afford to eat [b]healthy[/b] and/or have the discipline to exercise. No matter how far into transhumanism we get, social perception of beauty will always be about people achieving looks that are harder for everyone else to achieve. When model bodies are a dime a dozen, model bodies are now normal, not hot.
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Fist: My supposition in
Fist: My supposition in response to the questoion of the OP is not my preference. I do not espouse the western monoculture nor do I prefer waifish women over another body type. Please do not address me as if I'm supporting a personal cause. This might really piss me off...
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OneTrikPony wrote:
Will there still be differences in minor things like traditional dress at the time of the Fall? Maybe. But the fact is that there will be far fewer languages in which to publish Vogue and GQ 100 years from now. When morphology becomes a choice, which will happen far sooner than the timeline of EP proposes, Most people will choose to be like everyone else. It's just easier that way.
Uh, I know a lot of people of colour who would find this really offensive. The idea that they would want to be "like everyone else" where "everyone else" means "white Western beauty ideals." And I'm not just talking about lefty radical people of colour.
When you think of 'western monoculture' why do you think "White" ? Western cultural drivers haven't been bounded by race for 60 years as of the present day. Have you heard of these people; Louis Armstrong, Hendrix, Santana, Arsinio Hall, Dre, Tupak, Selena, Pitbull, also Titi Kwan and what about Betty Clemo??? I'm uncertain if you're attributing that sentiment to me. If I thought you were I would demand a retraction. How many, "lefty radical people of colour" do you claim as friends?
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a different monoculture could emerge in China, and yet another one in India, and each of these could try and purge the Western monoculture elements and show the West that they can play that game at just the same levels, if not bigger and better.
The meme wars are not a zero-sum game. I can see that the western monoculture scares you, (and it should), but not because everyone in the world is going to eventually be a 'Merican'. As I stated, nations are already out of the game. The Nation of America is no longer the primary driver of cultural change over the globe, (hasn't been since the Beatles) neither will be the nations of China or India. The monoculture is globalized but that does not change the fact that it has it's roots in the west. Memes cannot be 'purged'. That's the nature of a 'meme' it's cultural genetics. You can't 'purge' western memes from eastern cultures anymore than you can 'purge' bilateral symmetry from mammals. No one can deny that to this point the flow of cultural ideas has largely traveled from west to east. To put it another way; the damage is already done. However I don't think that's how Nick Land would put it. I think he's simply surprised and pleased that china has proved that his 'cyber culture' does not entirely consume everything it contacts. Western memes are strong but that strength comes from their tendency to absorb and incorporate rather than crush and obliterate. Point: Marco Polo proved this 800 years ago. If the western monoculture were antithetical to all else the cold war would have ended in a much more violent manner. Dave, you seem to have educated yourself on this subject, having spent a lot of time on fashion blogs and read Nick Land's CCRU stuff. You've posted your arguments against my supposition so now I think it's time for you to post your own. As the OP asked; What will be the beauty standard of 10 AF and why do you think so?
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First I was contemplating not responding to you at all OneTrikPony, because you stated your opinion as if it was fact within the Eclipse Phase universe, something you can only do if you are in charge of the setting. Are you in fact in charge of the setting? I don't respond very well to that sort of discussion technique.
I think this is the second time you have obliquely accused me of claiming some ownership of the game. I really don't know where that's coming from. I state my opinion, I base it on facts that I am aware of as I understand them. What else am I supposed to do? I don't know what about me or the tone of my typing rubs you wrong, Lorsa, but I think it's fair for me to demand that next time you make that accusation you include the specifics of the reason you take offense. Are you just angry with me because I disagree with your premise? Do you only post for people who agree with you? The fundamental basis of beauty ideals is not their difficulty to achieve. The fundamental basis for beauty ideals is biological fitness [i]in relation to environment[/i]. Take that and tack on cultural memes that have occasionally required things like chinese foot binding, and artificial cranial deformation and there you have fashion. In EP fashion is informed by a low-G environment being tall is socially beneficial and it no longer requires any labor or attention to be skinny. You ask what the standard will be then posit that there will be no standard, then become frustrated with me because I point to current [u]trends[/u] and the writers words to disagree with you. If you want me to stay out of your threads just ask. That would hurt my feelings less than being accused of taking credit for the game.

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OneTrikPony wrote:Lorsa wrote
OneTrikPony wrote:
Lorsa wrote:
First I was contemplating not responding to you at all OneTrikPony, because you stated your opinion as if it was fact within the Eclipse Phase universe, something you can only do if you are in charge of the setting. Are you in fact in charge of the setting? I don't respond very well to that sort of discussion technique.
I think this is the second time you have obliquely accused me of claiming some ownership of the game. I really don't know where that's coming from. I state my opinion, I base it on facts that I am aware of as I understand them. What else am I supposed to do? I don't know what about me or the tone of my typing rubs you wrong, Lorsa, but I think it's fair for me to demand that next time you make that accusation you include the specifics of the reason you take offense. Are you just angry with me because I disagree with your premise? Do you only post for people who agree with you?
Maybe the problem is that Lorsa has is you didn't use words like "I think..." or "It seems...". Without those words put into sentences, maybe Lorsa thinks you are trying to say things and say them as though they were 100% true (or something like that). Personally, I don't quite get why Lorsa thinks you are trying to take credit for the game. Lorsa asked some questions, and you gave a reply. Expecting every point to start with "I think" is unusually formal if you ask me. I find that a lot that is understood in language is inferred, not explicitly spelled out to the point where no other conclusion was possible but the one the speaker wanted (I think it would take a lot of work to do so).
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OneTrikPony wrote:
Lorsa wrote:
First I was contemplating not responding to you at all OneTrikPony, because you stated your opinion as if it was fact within the Eclipse Phase universe, something you can only do if you are in charge of the setting. Are you in fact in charge of the setting? I don't respond very well to that sort of discussion technique.
I think this is the second time you have obliquely accused me of claiming some ownership of the game. I really don't know where that's coming from. I state my opinion, I base it on facts that I am aware of as I understand them. What else am I supposed to do? I don't know what about me or the tone of my typing rubs you wrong, Lorsa, but I think it's fair for me to demand that next time you make that accusation you include the specifics of the reason you take offense. Are you just angry with me because I disagree with your premise? Do you only post for people who agree with you? You ask what the standard will be then posit that there will be no standard, then become frustrated with me because I point to current [u]trends[/u] and the writers words to disagree with you. If you want me to stay out of your threads just ask. That would hurt my feelings less than being accused of taking credit for the game.
I do not believe I own a thread or a discussion. It is not my thread specifically but one I created that now belongs to the forum. When you wrote your first post it stated what will be. That is, you expressed absolute certainty that what you said would hold true for Eclipse Phase. Reading your post, I got the feeling there was no need for further discussion because this is simply how it is. Instead of trying to sell your opinion with arguments, you used force language. And I simply don't respond very well to that. It is the same when watching political debates on TV, whenever I see a politician using force language he (or she) looses my vote no matter what is said. It appears to me you believe there is only room for one opinion and that is yours. That there is no need for any further discussion because here is the truth. Personally I love people disagreeing with me on matters. I will argue a point furiously in order to get out the most arguments from my opponent and later I will think through what has been said and in many cases change my initian viewpoint (which may be different from what I was arguing in some cases). Without long discussions and good arguments I think you will never improve or get the right view of the world. Trying to understand different viewpoints and thinking of their merits is a thing I've always enjoyed in life. So perhaps part of my irritation comes from that when you state your opinion with force language it seems as though you are not interested in listening to me, that you are not open for discussion and that anyone holding a different opinion is stupid and wrong.
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DivineWrath wrote:Maybe the
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Maybe the problem is that Lorsa has is you didn't use words like "I think..." or "It seems...". Without those words put into sentences, maybe Lorsa thinks you are trying to say things and say them as though they were 100% true (or something like that). Personally, I don't quite get why Lorsa thinks you are trying to take credit for the game. Lorsa asked some questions, and you gave a reply. Expecting every point to start with "I think" is unusually formal if you ask me. I find that a lot that is understood in language is inferred, not explicitly spelled out to the point where no other conclusion was possible but the one the speaker wanted (I think it would take a lot of work to do so).
You are quite right. Changing from force language "it is" "it will be" when talking about things that can't be empirically proven to opinion statement "I believe" helps matters a lot. Of course it can't be artificial like "oh I have to put in some I think" and then put it everywhere (because then it seems like sarcasm). It has to come from the heart. So yes, I do think he is trying to say things as though they are 100% true [i]because that is what he is saying![/i] I don't necessarily expect every point to start like that, but when nothing is it [b]infers[/b] that whoever wrote it is stating a fact, an undeniable truth. Yes, a lot of language is inferred and especially in a written medium you have to be very careful with what you infer. The language you use is extremely important and I think the responsibility is at you the writer to make sure you are understood, not you the reciever. I don't understand how anyone could NOT be aware of force language and what it infers. Furthermore I don't understand how anyone would NOT choose how they say something in a medium that has an edit button. I am generally easier on people when they speak but even then I don't listen to force language. Although as opposed to written medium when my first thought is simply to ignore, when speaking it might instead cause me to raise an eyebrow and say "Oh really? Is that so now?" in a somewhat sarcastic tone.
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When someone reads something
When someone reads something that is obviously speculative but doesn't have "I think" in every sentence and then interprets that as the writer being 100% convinced of it, I assume that the reader is either a) socially inept and unable to read between the lines b) from academia and so ingrained with that particular language that they're not willing to accept that people outside of it don't communicate with such rigorous standards c) more interested in nitpicking about "oh noes force language bad" instead of actually arguing the issue. I mean, when you're saying that no matter the message you'd never vote for someone who used force language, there's something really fishy going on. That is indeed some weird priorities, if the language of policy makers matter more than actual policy. Bottom line: real men use force language and smart people don't take it literally.
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Smokeskin wrote:When someone
Smokeskin wrote:
When someone reads something that is obviously speculative but doesn't have "I think" in every sentence and then interprets that as the writer being 100% convinced of it, I assume that the reader is either a) socially inept and unable to read between the lines b) from academia and so ingrained with that particular language that they're not willing to accept that people outside of it don't communicate with such rigorous standards c) more interested in nitpicking about "oh noes force language bad" instead of actually arguing the issue. I mean, when you're saying that no matter the message you'd never vote for someone who used force language, there's something really fishy going on. That is indeed some weird priorities, if the language of policy makers matter more than actual policy. Bottom line: real men use force language and smart people don't take it literally.
I've been contemplating what to say to this all day, going back and forth between various options. After some thought I decided to skip completely misreading your post and claiming I was reading between the lines as well as starting to write my posts as though they were objective truth. To be fair I am not sure my definition of force language is correct or applicable. I got carried away and wanted to put a good word to something I can easier describe in swedish (I think). Nevertheless I find your position rather curious. Let's start with politicians. I think the personality and character of the people that should rule my country to be very important. If that wasn't so then we'd simply vote for ideas or computer programs and not people. You choose to vote for people that you trust. A person who states opinion as fact appears to me as a person who only cares for his (or hers) own opinion, that would never listen to anyone else or change his (or hers) mind. That people should listen to him/her [i]because this is simply how it is.[/i] That is not the kind of person I want to rule my country. I want someone that can listen to others and accept that he (or she) may occassionly be wrong. Stating opinion as fact seems to me as bullying and I don't like bullies, especially not as country-rulers. In response to your list I do believe I continued the discussion with some thoughts of my own, presenting things that I saw in the world that could change our beauty ideals in time for the Eclipse Phase setting. I am still not convinced I am right and there is a lot of merit to what's been said by people (including OneTrikPony) arguing for a specific ideal. So that leaves you with assuming that I am either from academia or socially inept. While I most deifnitely prefer to read on the lines than between them as there is where the actual text is located the problem with reading between the lines is that two people can read two very different things. As we obviously did. I have found in my life that assuming people will "read between the lines" and "understand what you mean" is futile and the road to communication problems. Better to say what you mean how you mean it. Especially with text and even more especially across cultural borders. I am not sure what you mean with being from academia but I have spent a fair amount of years at the university (and will be for a long time if I get my wishes through). What I don't understand is what academia language you are referreing to? The way I write my physics thesis is definitely not applicable to an internet forum. So, if something is obviously speculative, why would you accept a person trying to make it something else? Besides, how do you KNOW the person believes it is specualtive when nothing in what is being said indicates such? That's not reading between the lines, that is taking your own assumptions about a topic and disregarding what is being said because you see it through a filter of your own assumptions. Reading between the lines is, to my knowledge, reading things that aren't written. In this case a person's views ARE written. Besides, it is so easy to express yourself the way you want to, so why should I assume someone is not? Let's have a few examples to illustrate: When talking about opinions about the future 100 years from now there are a few ways to write things: "In 100 years the world will be ruled by multinational banks and 70% of the people will be indentured slaves." - this is the way you write a statement of fact. "In 100 years I think the world will be ruled by multinational banks and I believe 70% of the people will be indentured slaves." - this is the way you write an opinion. "100 years from now. World ruled by multinational banks. 70% of the people indentured slaves." - this is a neutral / ambigous statement. Let's have another example: "I think you are stupid." - an opinion. "You are stupid." - a statement of fact and for most people also considered an insult. I really don't see how the way you say something is NOT important. Cummincation is the first and last thing all relationship therapists tell you to work on. There are books written about this subject, all to help people communicate and get along better. Internet pages are devoted to this subject. To me it is clearly important. Let me write an a-to-c list of my own. When someone writes something about a topic that is obviously speculative but doesn't have "I think" or "I believe" or "In my opinion" (or similar) in the first (and most) sentences and instead writes "It is", I assume the writer is either a) socially inept and unable to communicate properly b) poorly educated and unable to accept that communication is important and as such not educate him/her-self c) more interesting in forcing their opinion on people instead of arguing the issue. Bottom line: ... oh yes, let's discuss the bottom line. It is interesting that you started your post clearly stating that this was your opinion, which then helps make sure this bottom line also be read as being an opinion. Nevertheless your bottom line has an implicit threat in it. If you don't accept people stating opinion as fact you are stupid. You don't want to be stupid, do you? No, so accept it. It implies that you do not want me to accept your opinion on its own merit but because I don't want to be seen as stupid. That is a very poor discussion technique. BUT, I assume your bottom line wasn't completely serious and that you don't truly believe that in order to be a real man you have to use force language and if you take people for what they say you are stupid. I could be wrong, but that's what reading between the lines says me. Bottom line: smart people think of how they come across when they communicate and real men treat people around them with respect.
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I never knew that 'force
I never knew that 'force language' existed. I'm still not sure that it does, it seems kind of like a PC term and I've never heard the term in any reference to debate technique. Now that it's been explained to me, the concept of 'force language' is 'bad' makes me feel... revulsion, and sad, I guess. For me, when people do not use what I think I understand to be 'force language' they seem disingenuous. It makes me itch between my shoulder blades. I can't trust false circumspection. I don't get along well with people who are not plain spoken. I'm sorry Lorsa, I think we just have one of those incompatible cultural differences. It's nothing personal and I'm not here to bother you. I'll check the ID of the OP before I jump in. Thanks for clearing things up.

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I'm not sure what was
I'm not sure what was achieved here. It seems like there was a dispute here (over a trivial matter) and now someone who was willing to participate in this discussion was driven away. Doesn't that diminish the quality of the conversations of this thread now?
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Lorsa wrote:Smokeskin wrote
Lorsa wrote:
Smokeskin wrote:
When someone reads something that is obviously speculative but doesn't have "I think" in every sentence and then interprets that as the writer being 100% convinced of it, I assume that the reader is either a) socially inept and unable to read between the lines b) from academia and so ingrained with that particular language that they're not willing to accept that people outside of it don't communicate with such rigorous standards c) more interested in nitpicking about "oh noes force language bad" instead of actually arguing the issue. I mean, when you're saying that no matter the message you'd never vote for someone who used force language, there's something really fishy going on. That is indeed some weird priorities, if the language of policy makers matter more than actual policy. Bottom line: real men use force language and smart people don't take it literally.
I've been contemplating what to say to this all day, going back and forth between various options. After some thought I decided to skip completely misreading your post and claiming I was reading between the lines as well as starting to write my posts as though they were objective truth. To be fair I am not sure my definition of force language is correct or applicable. I got carried away and wanted to put a good word to something I can easier describe in swedish (I think). Nevertheless I find your position rather curious. Let's start with politicians. I think the personality and character of the people that should rule my country to be very important. If that wasn't so then we'd simply vote for ideas or computer programs and not people. You choose to vote for people that you trust. A person who states opinion as fact appears to me as a person who only cares for his (or hers) own opinion, that would never listen to anyone else or change his (or hers) mind. That people should listen to him/her [i]because this is simply how it is.[/i] That is not the kind of person I want to rule my country. I want someone that can listen to others and accept that he (or she) may occassionly be wrong. Stating opinion as fact seems to me as bullying and I don't like bullies, especially not as country-rulers.
Ok, you're one of the "votes for the guy they'd most like to have a beer with" types. You should look into rhetoric, social engineering, sales techniques and such to see how easy that feeling of trust and rapport is to fake for charismatic people, and how inaccurate it is. Btw, that's a good example of what an assertion of fact looks like.
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In response to your list I do believe I continued the discussion with some thoughts of my own, presenting things that I saw in the world that could change our beauty ideals in time for the Eclipse Phase setting. I am still not convinced I am right and there is a lot of merit to what's been said by people (including OneTrikPony) arguing for a specific ideal. So that leaves you with assuming that I am either from academia or socially inept. While I most deifnitely prefer to read on the lines than between them as there is where the actual text is located the problem with reading between the lines is that two people can read two very different things. As we obviously did. I have found in my life that assuming people will "read between the lines" and "understand what you mean" is futile and the road to communication problems. Better to say what you mean how you mean it. Especially with text and even more especially across cultural borders. I am not sure what you mean with being from academia but I have spent a fair amount of years at the university (and will be for a long time if I get my wishes through). What I don't understand is what academia language you are referreing to? The way I write my physics thesis is definitely not applicable to an internet forum.
I mean that in academia you learn to write and speak with very accurate and constant indications of your confidence level. Outside of academia, people rarely do that, and they take that sort of language as either contrived or as a sign that the speaker is very uncertain of what he's saying.
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So, if something is obviously speculative, why would you accept a person trying to make it something else? Besides, how do you KNOW the person believes it is specualtive when nothing in what is being said indicates such? That's not reading between the lines, that is taking your own assumptions about a topic and disregarding what is being said because you see it through a filter of your own assumptions. Reading between the lines is, to my knowledge, reading things that aren't written. In this case a person's views ARE written.
If you read speculation or opinion as statements of fact just because it isn't labelled as speculation or opinion, then yes, you do need to read between the lines instead of taking things literally.
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Besides, it is so easy to express yourself the way you want to, so why should I assume someone is not? Let's have a few examples to illustrate: When talking about opinions about the future 100 years from now there are a few ways to write things: "In 100 years the world will be ruled by multinational banks and 70% of the people will be indentured slaves." - this is the way you write a statement of fact. "In 100 years I think the world will be ruled by multinational banks and I believe 70% of the people will be indentured slaves." - this is the way you write an opinion.
Honestly, they read the same to me.
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Let's have another example: "I think you are stupid." - an opinion. "You are stupid." - a statement of fact and for most people also considered an insult.
I hope you're joking...
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I really don't see how the way you say something is NOT important. Cummincation is the first and last thing all relationship therapists tell you to work on. There are books written about this subject, all to help people communicate and get along better. Internet pages are devoted to this subject. To me it is clearly important. Let me write an a-to-c list of my own. When someone writes something about a topic that is obviously speculative but doesn't have "I think" or "I believe" or "In my opinion" (or similar) in the first (and most) sentences and instead writes "It is", I assume the writer is either a) socially inept and unable to communicate properly b) poorly educated and unable to accept that communication is important and as such not educate him/her-self c) more interesting in forcing their opinion on people instead of arguing the issue.
In the case of OneTrikPony, you're certainly wrong. He's a curious guy, knows about many things, and is humble enough to discuss the merits of his beliefs and listen when others have good points or knows more.
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Bottom line: ... oh yes, let's discuss the bottom line. It is interesting that you started your post clearly stating that this was your opinion, which then helps make sure this bottom line also be read as being an opinion. Nevertheless your bottom line has an implicit threat in it. If you don't accept people stating opinion as fact you are stupid. You don't want to be stupid, do you? No, so accept it. It implies that you do not want me to accept your opinion on its own merit but because I don't want to be seen as stupid. That is a very poor discussion technique. BUT, I assume your bottom line wasn't completely serious and that you don't truly believe that in order to be a real man you have to use force language and if you take people for what they say you are stupid. I could be wrong, but that's what reading between the lines says me.
You are quite correct :) I thought it was hilarious
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Bottom line: smart people think of how they come across when they communicate and real men treat people around them with respect.
Nah, you shouldn't universally treat people with respect. Start out with respect, and if they live up to it, continue with respect, and if they don't, give them a chance now and then to earn respect. What a game theorist would call GENEROUS TIT FOR TAT (they like to write strategy names in caps).
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OneTrikPony wrote:I never
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I never knew that 'force language' existed. I'm still not sure that it does, it seems kind of like a PC term and I've never heard the term in any reference to debate technique. Now that it's been explained to me, the concept of 'force language' is 'bad' makes me feel... revulsion, and sad, I guess. For me, when people do not use what I think I understand to be 'force language' they seem disingenuous. It makes me itch between my shoulder blades. I can't trust false circumspection. I don't get along well with people who are not plain spoken. I'm sorry Lorsa, I think we just have one of those incompatible cultural differences. It's nothing personal and I'm not here to bother you. I'll check the ID of the OP before I jump in. Thanks for clearing things up.
As I said in the PM I sent to you, it would sadden me greatly if you stopped participating in discussions that I start. In fact I would regard it as a failure of our part to get over a difference in viewpoint. I don't believe cultural differences are strictly incompatible, it just needs communication and understanding. I am willing to admit that my assumptions about you were wrong and that I have to redefine the way I read written language. Now that you have explained the way you see things I will have an easier time. I do appreciate that when you wrote your reply you did adapt to the way I read things. That shows good character. So thank you. When I say things like "I think that" or "I believe that", it is not being disingenous. I am merely stating my thoughts or views on a subject in a way that hopefully will make you understand that this is not empirical truths. That means in order to change my mind you have to challenge what I base these views on, not the opinions themselves. Or show me that there is an empirical truth about this subject of course. Also I don't do false circumspection. I can do real circumspection and always try to. I dislike people that are fake too. I like to have my views and opinions challanged. I like to change my mind about things. It's called growth. So please, do me a favor and speak your mind.
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DivineWrath wrote:I'm not
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I'm not sure what was achieved here. It seems like there was a dispute here (over a trivial matter) and now someone who was willing to participate in this discussion was driven away. Doesn't that diminish the quality of the conversations of this thread now?
Indeed it does. Although I disagree with you that communication is a trivial matter. I think it is a very important matter and the source for most relationship problems.
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Smokeskin wrote:Ok, you're
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Ok, you're one of the "votes for the guy they'd most like to have a beer with" types. You should look into rhetoric, social engineering, sales techniques and such to see how easy that feeling of trust and rapport is to fake for charismatic people, and how inaccurate it is.
I didn't say the message or political viewpoint wasn't important. Of course it is. Most things can be faked, I am aware of that. I didn't argue for that a person who expresses opinions with "I think" naturally is open to discussion, I said I read people that don't as NOT being open. That's two different things. :) I'm not naive... ok I may be a bit naive but I'm not stupid... ok I may be a bit stupid too but I demand the right to be if I want to!
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Btw, that's a good example of what an assertion of fact looks like. I mean that in academia you learn to write and speak with very accurate and constant indications of your confidence level. Outside of academia, people rarely do that, and they take that sort of language as either contrived or as a sign that the speaker is very uncertain of what he's saying.
That's kind of weird. Why would it seems as if the speaker is uncertain? Besides, academia adopted that language for a reason, and that same reason can easily be applied to people outside of it. I don't see how "people rarely do" means that they are right and academia is wrong. If anything, shouldn't we look towards those with higher education to inspire us to further greatness? Forward, upwards and onwards? Yes, I am getting carried away again, I often do that. Still, please explain to me how it would seem as the speaker being uncertain.
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If you read speculation or opinion as statements of fact just because it isn't labelled as speculation or opinion, then yes, you do need to read between the lines instead of taking things literally.
But how would I KNOW that the writer doesn't see it as fact? The problem with reading between the lines is that people can see all sorts of different things there. I can impossible know what the writer wants me to see and I've heard accounts of people who've been offended when people have read things "between the lines" that wasn't there. The only way reading between the lines work is if two people know eachother very well. I claim that communication through a text based medium is best made when the writer assumes that the things said will be taken literal. For God's sake, just look at how many issues the need for reading between the lines in the Bible have caused! If it had been written like a scientific thesis it would have solved so much! More literal reading! (and yes I've stopped being literal because you've proven to be able to read between my lines) ;)
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Honestly, they read the same to me.
Really? So what do you do to differ between facts and opinion?
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I hope you're joking...
I was a bit. Also, did I mention I easily get carried away?
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In the case of OneTrikPony, you're certainly wrong. He's a curious guy, knows about many things, and is humble enough to discuss the merits of his beliefs and listen when others have good points or knows more.
Through this discussion, I've come to realize that. I'm glad my assumptions about people through the way they write can be wrong. I do take that though as bringing communications issues to light was a good thing rather than a bad thing.
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You are quite correct :) I thought it was hilarious
It wasn't at the time I read it I'm afraid. I got a bit rattled by this discussion and the implications that I was socially inept and stupid. In hindsight it was quite funny. :)
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Nah, you shouldn't universally treat people with respect. Start out with respect, and if they live up to it, continue with respect, and if they don't, give them a chance now and then to earn respect. What a game theorist would call GENEROUS TIT FOR TAT (they like to write strategy names in caps).
Tsk tsk, you should always be better than the people around you, so even if they don't earn your respect you should give it because that makes you a better person than them. I like to be the better person. Also, I have great balance so I can stand on a high horse without falling.
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Lorsa wrote:Smokeskin wrote
Lorsa wrote:
Smokeskin wrote:
Btw, that's a good example of what an assertion of fact looks like. I mean that in academia you learn to write and speak with very accurate and constant indications of your confidence level. Outside of academia, people rarely do that, and they take that sort of language as either contrived or as a sign that the speaker is very uncertain of what he's saying.
That's kind of weird. Why would it seems as if the speaker is uncertain? Besides, academia adopted that language for a reason, and that same reason can easily be applied to people outside of it. I don't see how "people rarely do" means that they are right and academia is wrong. If anything, shouldn't we look towards those with higher education to inspire us to further greatness?
People associate assertiveness with truth. That's just how people are wired. It takes training to interpret statements like they do in academia. Nervous people are for example believed to be wrong or even liars far more often than charismatic people. And you're gonna have a bad time if you look to people with higher education to inspire you to further greatness outside of their specific branch of academia. Education is training in narrow field with limited real world application, both because of its limited scope and because of faulty assumptions. The map is rarely the territory. I see many people with fancy educations who don't understand that 80% of business is hustling - it's about building rapport, reading people, manipulating, exploiting information assymetry, giving false information, pulling cons, and whatnot. And how so many can educate themselves and not study cognitive biases and probability theory is beyond. So they get gutted by coworkers, bosses, competitors, suppliers, customers and chance instead of the other way around. As a wise man said "science is about understanding the world. Business is about making other people misunderstand it."
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Smokeskin wrote:
If you read speculation or opinion as statements of fact just because it isn't labelled as speculation or opinion, then yes, you do need to read between the lines instead of taking things literally.
But how would I KNOW that the writer doesn't see it as fact? The problem with reading between the lines is that people can see all sorts of different things there. I can impossible know what the writer wants me to see and I've heard accounts of people who've been offended when people have read things "between the lines" that wasn't there. The only way reading between the lines work is if two people know eachother very well. I claim that communication through a text based medium is best made when the writer assumes that the things said will be taken literal. For God's sake, just look at how many issues the need for reading between the lines in the Bible have caused! If it had been written like a scientific thesis it would have solved so much! More literal reading! (and yes I've stopped being literal because you've proven to be able to read between my lines) ;)
And if only everyone would cooperate in non-iterated Prisoner's Dillema, everyone would be better off. But everyone but schmucks defect. I get your point, but it is wishful thinking which gets you nowhere.
Lorsa wrote:
Smokeskin wrote:
Honestly, they read the same to me.
Really? So what do you do to differ between facts and opinion?
I don't really see how you can meaningfully confuse the two. With the caveat that of course I don't trust statements of factt - so many people remember things wrong or misunderstand them or simply lie that you can't do anything but try to estimate the probability of it actually being true.
Lorsa wrote:
Smokeskin wrote:
Nah, you shouldn't universally treat people with respect. Start out with respect, and if they live up to it, continue with respect, and if they don't, give them a chance now and then to earn respect. What a game theorist would call GENEROUS TIT FOR TAT (they like to write strategy names in caps).
Tsk tsk, you should always be better than the people around you, so even if they don't earn your respect you should give it because that makes you a better person than them. I like to be the better person. Also, I have great balance so I can stand on a high horse without falling.
That's like, your opinion ;) Btw, nice to talk to someone who actually does the whole discussion thing like it is supposed to be done :)
OneTrikPony OneTrikPony's picture
Lorsa wrote:As I said in the
Lorsa wrote:
As I said in the PM I sent to you, it would sadden me greatly if you stopped participating in discussions that I start.
I finally noticed your PM. I don't have much to say on topic here but I wanted to express heartfelt thanks in being invited to participate. It's important to me, not because I'm trying to promote my own vision or opinion, but as Lorsa said, it's extremely valuable to have a court and jury that can put my thoughts on trial. Lorsa is right about me. I am uneducated. I simply do not have the intelligence to both assemble a coherent, logical thought and consider then niceties of proper presentation at the same time. Mea Culpa. My mode of speech can make others feel uninvited. This has been an important reminder. For what it's worth, Lorsa has my endorsement as an earnest and honorable person.

Mea Culpa: My mode of speech can make others feel uninvited to argue or participate. This is the EXACT opposite of what I intend when I post.

Anarchitect Anarchitect's picture
WOW.
Dude, that is the most mature and reasonable response to a critique I have heard/read in a very long time. The fact that you are willing to own up to micommunication, consider how others view you, and make adjustments.. Just wow. If every argument was between people as mature as this, the world would be a better place. Just, thank you for being willing to listen and adapt, with an eye to making discussion of ideas better for everyone. +10 rep in the network of your choice.
davethebrave davethebrave's picture
I'm chippin' in +10 rep for
I'm chippin' in +10 rep for Lorsa, network of choice and +30 rep for OneTrikPony on this one, all reps but u-rep (those ultimates are so hard to please). Seriously though, this is some nettiquette X a thousand up in this thread.
Yours, Dave the Brave
davethebrave davethebrave's picture
And to answer your earlier
And to answer your earlier question, OTP: I think in 10 BF (nevermind 10 AF), the immense explosion of neurodiversity from psychosurgery and morph experimentation and so on will probably lead to very localized standards of attractiveness, literally hab to hab (and as scum swarms show, where the diversity is greatest, it's hard to even pin down a single average for one type of morph, much less for morphological beauty standards in general). I really do think that your points are probably pretty spot on as far as the inner system goes, but I bet even there regional variations would mean a lot. Consider what it says in the core book about how connected people become to their hab's local networks (or in the case of Mars, Luna, etc. the mesh network of their planet). I would envision that driving a lot of things, from styles of interior decorating to fashion trends to what kinds of body images are found most applicable to scult onto a sylph biomorph. It also provides a lot of local flavour to distinguish different habs within the same region from each other as your players investigate between them if everywhere they go there are slightly different overarching themes (such as habs where an overabundance of dverger morphs might skew their sylphs a bit shorter and stockier than a neighbouring hab, or Consortium Martian body image ideals skewed towards Chinese cultural forces vs. Lunar expats from India in control of advertising hypercorp interests in the LLA vs. a Venusian fashion house of largely Eastern European and Russian background vis a vis pre-Fall Earth...and that's just the inner system!). Obviously these are all just ideas, and all just off the top of my head here, but does that give you a rough sketch of what I'm talking about? Memetics is something to get a PhD in if you want to make money with the spin-doctors, culture-shapers and other assorted Bernaysian hyperpropagandists of the post-Fall period, and I feel like the degree/scale which these meme wars can achieve in Eclipse Phase are almost out of touch with our slowed down early 21st century conception of meme transmission, conflict and dominance/defeat. I would think it equally realistic to say that the rates have slowed down because of the Fall to more grokkable levels (for now, with an inevitable ramp-up to pre-Fall levels and beyond on the horizon) as it would be to say that in a desperate attempt to "Keep Calm and Carry On" (to quote what would be an ancient meme AF) they actually have accelerated the mesh-centric memewars to a degree that has even the bodies of an individual metacelebrity fluctuating wildly month to month as body standards change in scaled up versions of social justice/anti-SJ tumblr wars of today, but taking places exclusively in fashion industry mesh chat simulspaces.
Yours, Dave the Brave
Smokeskin Smokeskin's picture
I really don't see how even
I really don't see how even moderately sized habs or regions could keep up with the big players in the constantly ongoing memetic wars for fashion and entertainment. Today a region as rich as Europe is on its own turf unable to match Hollywood's influence even remotely. Memetic wars has a winner-takes-all aspect to it. Will there be subcultures? Of course. But those subcultures are likely to be relatively similar across the inner system and outer system respectively. And of course the outer system will likely be very different from the inner system - the social framework could be just too different for most memes to propagate effectively in both.
Anarchitect Anarchitect's picture
There's a limit on how fast
There's a limit on how fast body image can change, even in a fast-paced memetic war. It's as fast as the primary consumer market can replace their morph. The determining factor there is speed at which new morphs can be grown, time it takes to save up for a new morph, and potential waiting periods as other's who need a new morph are ahead of you in line. Even the most hyperconnected Glitterati has to wait 3 years for their custom designed biomorph to mature in an exowomb. Beauty ideals cannot change significantly over a smaller time-frame than years for that alone.
nizkateth nizkateth's picture
Random thought (I have a hard
Random thought (I have a hard time reading long amounts of text on a screen, bugs my eyes, so apologies if this has already been brought up in better detail): aren't all the social modifier advantages and flaws really subjective? Someone might find the slightly inhuman features of Uncanny Valley to be appealing, someone else might find the typically-attractive willowy high-appearance morphs to be off-putting... can't social modifiers really only be spoken of in generalities with specifics being handled on a case-by-case basis in game?
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Lorsa Lorsa's picture
Technically they could, and I
Technically they could, and I believe they should, but as the game is built now that isn't the case. Social stigma suffers the same problems. Those traits are there to balance costs of backgrounds/factions/morphs (or at least so it seems to me) which means treating them too subjetive will give people who took them less penalty for their cost so to speak. If there came an EP 2.0 I would prefer to take away traits that can be subjective, write them in the text for the background/morph stating they can show up at times but making it a roleplaying concern mainly. Btw, thanks for the rep increases, I'll go with e-rep if that's possible!
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davethebrave davethebrave's picture
That's a really good point
That's a really good point about the biomorph engineering timescales! Hadn't factored that in.
Yours, Dave the Brave